• Apr
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    Travel Dating: Why a Coffee Shop is An Ideal Meeting Place

     

    Neutral ground is a place where both of you are in a public place where there are plenty of people. It could be during the day or at night, though it’s important that there’s plenty of traffic. This helps you to feel safe and comfortable.

    A coffee shop is a great place to meet, especially a popular one, because it satisfies all of these requirements.

    The other benefit of a coffee shop is it allows people to be casual and to relax, which is so important when meeting someone new. Having a drink also gives you something to do and if your hands are occupied, this will help if you’re feeling a bit nervous.

    Give and Take

    The best meeting is where there’s an ebb and flow, where each person it able to contribute to the conversation. Nothing kills a conversation faster than a person who dominates the space. In reality, there’s a form of give and take, where the conversation shifts back and forth and each person is able to contribute something of value.

    Set a Time Limit

    Set a time limit in advance. I recommend one hour, which is more than enough time to get to know someone. It’s highly likely that you’ll know, sooner than later if you want to spend time with this person or leave.

    When to End a Date

    Sometimes there isn’t a connection. For whatever reason, it just doesn’t work. If this is the case, you may want to end the date sooner or when the time is up.

    Sex

    For many couples, sex is of crucial importance. No sex; no relationship. It’s that simple. Uninhibited sex offers both people the opportunity for a great deal of enjoyment and to release a lot of stored energy. Properly focused, sex can be a celebration, a coming together of all which is great and wonderful in the relationship.

    Contrary to public opinion, I think it’s unnecessary to set a time frame on when to become sexually active. That’s a decision that should only be made by the couple, not society as a whole.

    This section would be incomplete without mentioning safe sex. It’s important to take precautions when meeting someone new and use contraceptives and having a blood test, if you feel it’s necessary.

    © Nathan Segal

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